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Concerning the Future of Our Church

I almost got hit by a car when I was a kid. I was riding my bike, standing up on the pedals with no hands on the handlebars (bad idea), and I started to cross an intersection without looking both ways (another bad idea). By God’s grace, I narrowly avoided being struck by a car. You always think it can’t happen to you. But I did a funeral once for a 13-year-old boy who was struck by a car while he rode his moped beside a busy highway. It happens. It’s happened to others. It can happen to you.

A year and a half ago I never dreamed I’d get COVID just after Easter, but I did. And so have lots of other people. Just when we start to think it can’t happen to us, we get sick, or somebody we know gets COVID. It happens. It’s happened to others. It can happen to you.

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Immanuel

Hang on; this isn’t going to be a typical December Christmas article. But these aren’t typical times.

Here’s a list of things I’ve tried in the ministry:

  • Visiting people with a partner (two-by-two visitation)
  • Visiting the new moves in a city
  • Memorized Gospel presentations (modelled on sales pitches)
  • Meeting with people one-on-one
  • Meeting with couples in their homes
  • Teaching small groups or classes
  • Daily 15-minute radio broadcasts
  • Morning devotional talks on a local television station
  • Door-to-door visiting, distributing Gospels of John
  • Door-to-door visiting, distributing flyers for a revival meeting
  • Door-to-door visiting, distributing dollar bills (just kidding)
  • Posting flyers in stores about special meetings
  • Ads in the newspaper featuring the devil (“Don’t come to this church!”) or sensational headlines (“Come Hear a Message from Mars!” based on Paul’s sermon at Mars Hill in Acts 17)
  • Sunday School giveaways and contests
  • Special Sundays with guest preachers
  • Special Sundays with guest musicians
  • Revival meetings in the church
  • Revival meetings in a barn
  • Camp meetings
  • Organized weekly visitation nights
  • Building programs
  • Church fairs (I was in the dunking booth.)
  • Door-to-door visiting distributing information packets with popcorn (“Why not pop in for a visit?”)
  • Door-to-door visiting distributing information packets with light bulbs (“Here’s an idea: Visit our church!”)
  • Visiting the homebound
  • Visiting hospitals
  • Visiting nursing homes
  • Visiting jails and prisons
  • Church planting (Two times. I’m not a church planter. Fool me twice, shame on me.)
  • Spiritual gift inventories
  • Evangelism training classes
  • New member classes
  • Vacation Bible Schools
  • Block parties
  • Expository preaching
  • Topical preaching
  • Sometimes really bad preaching
  • Preaching from entire chapters of the Bible
  • Preaching from a single verse of the Bible
  • Telling lots of jokes
  • Not telling any jokes
  • Using lots of illustrations
  • Not using any illustrations
  • Counseling
  • Using a cattle prod (kidding again)
  • Contemporary praise and worship music
  • Music with a full band, including electric guitars and drums (and didn’t lose my job)
  • Music with piano and organ
  • Music with just piano
  • Music with just guitar
  • Music with piano and guitar
  • Using chalk boards and white boards to teach
  • Using overhead projectors to teach
  • to teach (I’m still using PowerPoint to teach.)
  • Using PowerPoint in my sermons. (Still do, occasionally.)
  • Using videos in services
  • Special seminars
  • Leadership retreats
  • Discussion groups
  • Brainstorming groups
  • Mission statements/vision statements/purpose statements
  • Diagrams for “how we do church”
  • Slogans for “how we do church”
  • Statistical analysis of church attendance
  • Demographic studies of areas surrounding the church
  • Pastors’ conferences
  • Leadership conferences (often using the same books as the business world)
  • The latest book/workbook/seminar/set of tapes/set of CDs/set of DVDs/thumb drives/digital downloads about the latest church growth model (often the same as the previous bullet point, just 18-24 months later)
  • Dressing formally so people take me seriously
  • Dressing in blue jeans so people can “relate” to me
  • Being young and cool (I thought)
  • Being old and…I don’t know, fill in the blank.

My point in sharing the above laundry list is to try to make you understand why I often feel so jaded and disappointed when I go to a seminar or a conference, or when somebody approaches me with an idea. When I’m asked, “Hey, have you ever tried this?”, my answer, at least internally, is most often “Yes. At least two or three times.” It’s kind of like spending an hour looking for something you’ve lost. Then someone comes in and asks, “Did you look here? Did you look there?” And they list all the places you’ve just spent an hour searching.

Please understand: I don’t want to be a wet blanket, or rain on anybody’s parade. And maybe whatever the idea is will work better for you than it did for me. Maybe you’ll do it better than I did. Maybe for you it’ll be the “secret ingredient,” the “magic bullet.” I hope so.

But probably not.

Churches all over America are struggling, and declining, and closing. The ones that aren’t struggling most often are growing because people are transferring from smaller, struggling churches to one with a bigger building, better programs, and cooler music. But that doesn’t change the fact that overall church attendance is declining, and more and more people identify themselves in the category of “None” when it comes to religion.

At this point in my life and ministry I find myself yearning to see a real work of God. I want to see God at work in people’s lives. I want to see God at work in churches. I want to see God at work in our church.

I was at a seminar recently and heard the leader explaining how, when you try to talk to others about Jesus, you have to be willing to accept a lot of rejections and “nos.” I’ve heard this kind of thing before in other training sessions for evangelism. I’ve also heard it in training sessions for selling cookware and household products. Can you tell me what there is in such an approach that would cause any atheist or skeptic to look at it and say, “Oh, yes, God is working there!” There isn’t anything. Instead they’d say, “You’re just using a secular sales technique and saying it’s God.”

When I made my first attempt to start a church back in the early 1980s, a friend of our family who was a businessman told me, “Dave, your approach to religion is like someone selling size 9 shoes. Not everybody wears size 9 shoes. But some people do. You’ve just got to go out and find them.” He was trying to encourage me, and I tried to be encouraged by his comments. But even back then, in the back of my mind, I wondered how that was any different from a secular sales approach. What is there in an approach like that that would cause unbelievers to say, “Oh, God is at work there!” They’d just conclude we were using a secular technique from the business world. And they’d be right.

Listen to these words from the Apostle Paul’s letter to the church at Corinth in the 1st century:

But if all prophesy, and an unbeliever or outsider enters, he is convicted by all, he is called to account by all, the secrets of his heart are disclosed, and so, falling on his face, he will worship God and declare that God is really among you.

1 Corinthians 14:24-25

Don’t get distracted by that word “prophesy.” It could mean a supernatural message directly from God. But it also meant proclaiming the truth that God had already revealed. The literal meaning is “to tell forth” or “to tell out.” In that sense, it is synonymous with “preaching.”

The point is that when the church met together and God’s truth was proclaimed, even unbelievers had a sense of the Presence of God. The truth of God would pierce even to the secret heart, and the unbeliever would be moved to acknowledge “God is in you of a truth.” (King James Version)

I was so moved by what Pastor Nasser Kajou reported happening in Sudan: all of the Christians facing threats and being stoned by Muslims, and being arrested and imprisoned by the government, yet remaining faithful. And all of the Sudanese people who are turning away from Islam and native religions and putting their faith in Jesus. Baptizing over forty people on one day, including a 79-year-old woman. And all of these things happening in the most primitive places, with the most meager resources. These things are amazing. These things are incredible. These things are God at work. It made me weep to know that God was at work somewhere in the world.

But don’t you want to see God work here? Oh, I do. So very much.

But what I don’t want to do is find another way to gin up some excitement, find another trend to follow or method to try. I’m 65 years old. More and more I feel I don’t have time to waste. I don’t want to go to all the effort of putting lipstick on a pig and then trying to convince everybody how beautiful it is. I don’t want to go to all the effort of doing things and pretending that God is at work when He isn’t. If it isn’t from God, I don’t want it. If it isn’t from God, it’s a waste of time. The bottom line is, I would rather fail doing what God told us to do than to “succeed” doing anything else. Life is just too short to waste on anything else.

There are a handful of very simple things in the Bible that God told us to do. Things like simply reading and teaching the Scriptures and proclaiming the Gospel (1 Timothy 4:6, 11, 13; 2 Timothy 3:16, 4:1-2; Titus 2:1, 15). Things like learning what the apostles taught about Jesus (i.e., the New Testament), continuing in fellowship with one another, eating together and taking the Lord’s Supper together, and praying together (Acts 2:42). These things aren’t very much in style right now. I’m not sure they ever were. And just because we do these things doesn’t mean God’s Presence will show up or that God will work. We can go through the motions just like ancient Israel did in their temple worship.

But if we call on God together, as God’s people have time and again in the Bible and throughout history, in His grace and mercy God may just show up! And He may just begin to do things that only He can do, things that can’t be explained in any other way than by pointing to God. This is what I long for.

I don’t care if it’s a traditional church, or a contemporary church, or a blended church. I don’t care if it’s purpose-driven, program-based, or seeker-sensitive. None of those things matter if God isn’t there. If God is there, nothing else matters. And if God isn’t there, nothing else really matters.

This is the season we set aside to celebrate the coming of Jesus to us here on earth. God told the prophet Isaiah that His Son would be called “Immanuel.” Matthew’s Gospel explains that this title means “God with us.” (Matthew 1:23)

That’s what I want. That’s what we need. Immanuel. God with us. God with us when we go through our day. God with us when we go through our week. God with us when we’re happy. God with us when our hearts are breaking. God with us when we’re sick. God with us when we die. And God with us when we gather as a church. We need Immanuel. We need God with us.

May God be with us this Christmas season.

Soli Deo Gloria!

Pastor David

Sad Face

Here’s a real uplifting passage from the Bible:

It is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting, for this is the end of all mankind, and the living will lay it to heart. Sorrow is better than laughter, for by sadness of face the heart is made glad.

Ecclesiastes 7:2-3

Know anybody who says those are their favorite Bible verses? Me neither.

Lately we’ve had a lot of sad faces in our church. In fact, we’ve all had sad faces in the past few months, either because of something that’s happened to us, or something that’s happened to someone we love. I don’t like having a sad face. I bet you don’t either. Nobody does. So why would the Bible say, “Sorrow is better than laughter, for by sadness of face the heart is made glad”?

Ecclesiastes can be a puzzling and troubling book for many people. The whole thing seems so…pagan. And that’s the clue. The writer of Ecclesiastes, usually identified as Solomon, kept what amounts to a journal about his attempts to find happiness in everything except God. The book of 1st Kings tells us how King David’s son Solomon turned away from the worship of Yahweh in his later years. Ecclesiastes seems to be the record of his search for happiness apart from God. So, the bulk of the book is, well, godless.

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Seasons

About 1982 my family and I moved to Coal City, Indiana and I reconnected with a friend of mine I hadn’t seen for a couple of years. His name was Richard, and he was a musician, too. I was playing strictly acoustic guitar in those days, and he loaned me one of his amplifiers and an electronic effects unit for guitar. (For you guitar geeks out there, it was an Ibanez rackmount unit with compressor, overdrive, chorus, flanger and phaser.) All of this opened up a whole new world of wonderful sounds to explore.

Even more significantly, he loaned me an album of contemporary Christian music. It was an LP (I know, I’m an old guy) recorded by Dion, of “Dion and the Belmonts” fame. Dion had some top-40 hits in the sixties and seventies with songs like “Runaround Sue” and “Abraham, Martin and John.” But later Dion became a Christian and began to record Christian music. His music was a revelation to me. He sang the Gospel, clear and true, but in his own style, with guitar, bass, drums, and a Hammond B-3 organ. It was fantastic.

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Fear

My four-year-old grandson is nearly fearless. He launches himself at you—or off the couch—with all the reckless abandon of someone who still doesn’t quite understand the physics of the world or such fundamental concepts as gravity and the effects of sudden, forced stops on the human body. But he’s learning. And we’re trying to educate him about these things without him having to experience too much injury.

I said he was nearly fearless. Earlier this year he accidentally slammed his own little finger in the pantry door. My daughter heard him screaming and found him standing bewildered in a pool of his own blood, dripping from his finger. Fast-forward through the trip to the emergency room and the subsequent sedation surgery to rebuild his little finger, and the weeks of his hand being bandaged and re-bandaged repeatedly. He really came through it all like a little trooper, and his finger has completely healed so you’d never know it had happened. But he is a different little boy than he used to be.

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Ruby

This is the end of an era.

She was born in the Roaring Twenties (that explains a lot), grew up in the Great Depression, survived the World War Two era, lived through the Eisenhower years, got through the tumultuous Sixties and the scandalous Seventies, and all the way into the 21st century. Nearly a hundred years! What a century her life has spanned!

On Saturday, July 24, 2021, I got a call from Ruby Grindstaff at 9:37 AM. It lasted 25 seconds. She said, “Pastor David, I hate to bother you, but I wonder if I could trouble you to take me to the hospital? I’m not feeling at all well and I think I need to go.” I said, “Ruby, I’ll be right there.”

So here they are, in as close to the order I encountered them as I can remember.

When I got to her house a few minutes later she came right out. I opened the door to our car for her, and she apologized to me for disturbing my morning. I kept telling her she wasn’t disturbing me, and I was absolutely willing to take her to the hospital. Then she told me she’d been having chest pain all night and that she’d decided if it was still there in the morning, she would go to the hospital. And I wondered why she hadn’t called before.

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The Top Ten Books I’ve Ever Read

From time to time over the years I would finish a book and think, “That’s got to be one of the top ten books I’ve ever read!” And then I’d think, “Someday I’m going to make a list of the top ten books, besides the Bible, that I’ve ever read.” Well, today’s the day. I’m going to make an attempt to compile a list of books and tell you why they have meant so much to me.

But I have to tell you, this article is a fraud. There’s more than ten books on this list. As I started thinking back over the wonderful books I’ve read over the past forty-plus years, I thought, “How am I ever going to whittle the list down to just ten?” There are many other wonderful books in my library that are not on this list. But these are the books that came first to my mind as having impacted my life and ministry in meaningful ways. I ended up with thirteen books. That’s one for each of the twelve apostles, plus the Apostle Paul. (At least, that’s my feeble justification for going over ten.)

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Lighthouse

(With my wife’s upcoming hip replacement getting nearer, I’m in the midst of making preparations for taking a week off in order to help her with the recuperation after her surgery. There’s a lot to get done, so with your kind indulgence I’m going to repeat an article from 2014. It still expresses my desire for our church here in our town.)

While visiting our son recently, we had the chance to sail on a tall ship out into Lake Michigan, and got a closer look at a lighthouse, one of many that are scattered around the lake.

We also got to attend Sunday morning worship at the Moody Memorial Church, which stands like a spiritual lighthouse in Chicago’s Olde Towne. And what a wonderful experience that was!

We parked in the first-time visitor’s lot just across the street from the church, and we were greeted by dapper parking lot “attendants” in coats and ties. I asked, “How do we prove to you that we’re first-time visitors?” He smiled a million-dollar smile and said, “Just tell us ya are!”

When we got out of the car and stepped onto the sidewalk, we joined a throng of people streaming to the church from all points of the compass. And that’s when we started to feel the excitement. People were smiling and greeting one another with “Good morning!” (I think that’s the first time that’s happened to me in Chicago!) We immediately felt that we were surrounded by brothers and sisters in Christ.

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